Well, It's been a year since I blogged. That hasn't been because my life has been uninteresting. Actually that couldn't be further from the truth. Well lets give the last year in a recap.
1. Moved from Chicago
2. Moved to Memphis
3. Hate it
4. Still Married
5. Still a mommy.......
Well looking at that list it seems like my life has been boring as hell. I don't know what I should tell about. Since I can't think of anything about my boring ass life, I can talk about some thing that I have been noticing. So many people are parents and they never take the time to think how the things they do will affect their children. I am seeing all these generational curses passed on.
Like in my opinion, I believe that the kind of man that your father is makes a big difference in the type of man that little boys are and the type of person that the child picks to date. So with that thought I am seeing a trend of young women who in no specific terms lack self esteem. They allow people to treat them bad under the guise that someone supposedly loves them. Yea fucking right. Someone that loves you doesn't do things to intentionally hurt you all the time. That isn't to say that when you are in love you don't make mistakes that hurt the other person, you just don't do it intentionally all the time.
As parents we are responsible for well being of our children. We must show them a balance between overindulgence and neglect. It is just as harmful to your child when they can't do anything with out you. Parenting like any other thing in life is a balance between and different extremes. Now don't get me wrong, I am not judging nor condeming anyone that parents differently. The reality is just like you deal with different adults that you encounter differently this is the same as with children. Children are individuals. Everyone of them reacts differently to things. Parenting is hard enough with people placing their own issues in to it. Now I might not be considered to know much, I only have a 2 year old but I figure hey, its my blog and my opinion, if you don't like it don't read it. LOL
1. Moved from Chicago
2. Moved to Memphis
3. Hate it
4. Still Married
5. Still a mommy.......
Well looking at that list it seems like my life has been boring as hell. I don't know what I should tell about. Since I can't think of anything about my boring ass life, I can talk about some thing that I have been noticing. So many people are parents and they never take the time to think how the things they do will affect their children. I am seeing all these generational curses passed on.
Like in my opinion, I believe that the kind of man that your father is makes a big difference in the type of man that little boys are and the type of person that the child picks to date. So with that thought I am seeing a trend of young women who in no specific terms lack self esteem. They allow people to treat them bad under the guise that someone supposedly loves them. Yea fucking right. Someone that loves you doesn't do things to intentionally hurt you all the time. That isn't to say that when you are in love you don't make mistakes that hurt the other person, you just don't do it intentionally all the time.
As parents we are responsible for well being of our children. We must show them a balance between overindulgence and neglect. It is just as harmful to your child when they can't do anything with out you. Parenting like any other thing in life is a balance between and different extremes. Now don't get me wrong, I am not judging nor condeming anyone that parents differently. The reality is just like you deal with different adults that you encounter differently this is the same as with children. Children are individuals. Everyone of them reacts differently to things. Parenting is hard enough with people placing their own issues in to it. Now I might not be considered to know much, I only have a 2 year old but I figure hey, its my blog and my opinion, if you don't like it don't read it. LOL
posted by Neisha @ 8:31 PM
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